It is with great excitement that I introduce to you a Baluku or Masika,
expected around July 23.
That means we just started the second trimester (currently in week 14). It also means God answers prayer, that hard work and diligence are worth the effort, and that some treatments for PCOS do work. Suddenly, we conclude our journey of infertility and prepare for parenthood with great expectation. You cannot imagine the excitement!
We found out back in November (funny story later) but decided that we would not announce publicly until after the first trimester when all manner of possible mishaps has passed. We also wanted my father-in-law (her dad) to have the honor of being the first family member to know, so we held the secret until Christmas when we visited Seattle. Other family members and close friends learned shortly thereafter. We deserve a medal for how well we kept the juicy secret; nobody had a clue.
"Baluku" and "Masika" are rank names traditionally given to first-born boys and girls, respectively, in the Konjo tribe of western Uganda (of which I am kin). They signify special responsibility and blessing on the first-born name-bearer, a vision for their life. The rank name becomes a middle name when their legal firstname is decided (although I know some who use it as a given or even a surname).
Speaking of traditions, our diverse backgrounds, ethnicities, and upbringing have suddenly swung into full focus as we begin making decisions about this baby (in a good way). I mean, who knew we would have different opinions about birthing? Our parenthood will definitely be unique, to say the least.
